10 Things Only Gymnast’s Moms Understand

by: Tawnya
(This article was originally written here. Re-posted by permission from the author.)

Life of a Gymnastics Mom

When my daughter first became interested in gymnastics, neither she or I had any idea that it would become such a big part of our lives, of our family’s life. Today, from November to March our life pretty much revolves around the next meet, team practices, and private sessions. Sometimes when I meet new gymnastics’ moms or someone I know tells me how they can’t wait till their son or daughter is involved in competitive gymnastics, I want to tell them that it isn’t all medals and smiles, but I don’t. I admit it’s hard work, but in the end it’s all worth it. Below, I’ve shared 10 things only gymnast’s moms understand. If you are a veteran mom, you will totally get what I’m saying, and if you are a newbie, you will get a glimpse into the glamorous life of a gymnastics mom.

1. Music is No Longer Just Music…it’s Potential Floor Music

My daughter LOVES music. In fact, she has loved music since she was a little girl. After doing two years of compulsory gymnastics, she had the opportunity to pick her own floor music. From that moment on, music was never the same again. Don’t get me wrong, she stills LOVES music, but now, every song on the radio must be picked apart to determine if it would be great floor music.2. Rips, Tears, Blisters, and Blood – My Gymnast’s Hands

The first time my daughter ripped the palm of her hand, we were both upset about it. She wore a band-aid for about a week and avoided the bars at all cost. Now three years later, her hands look like they do manual labor, think lumberjack, for a living, and she doesn’t say a word about it. Now, she proudly announces when she gets rips on her palms because she says every rip is a sign that she just got better.

3. Don’t Forget to Remove the Nail Polish

My daughter has the best coaches. Seriously, these ladies are wonderful with the team and the parents as well. When my daughter was brand new to the team, we all had a big meeting and were given a list of things to do to prepare for meets. One of the requirements on the list was to remove all nail polish from fingers before meets. No matter how hard I try, my daughter shows up to at least one meet with nail polish on her stubby, little toes. To all the moms out there…don’t do this! Forgetting to remove nail polish before a meet is a cardinal sin.

4. My Living Room is Now a Practice Gym

Long before she was a gymnast, my little tomboy would climb the walls in my home. I don’t mean that theoretically! She literally would climb the walls like Spiderman, especially doorways. When she started gymnastics, we got her a practice mat and a beam. As she has progressed in gymnastics, I have lost more of my available floor space to her practice equipment. In fact, I use to have a living room, then I needed more room for practice equipment.

5. My 10-Year-Old is Ripped

I know gymnasts are ripped, but I didn’t expect to see my 10-year-old walking around with ab muscles and huge arms and legs. She has bigger muscles than me and she is closing in on her dad too. While people in our family like to joke that she started developing shoulder muscles in the womb, it isn’t true. Gymnastics has given her confidence and a body that rivals professional body builders.

6. Practice Leos are Expensive? Haha

When my daughter started gymnastics, I was surprised at how expensive gymnastics leotards were. Then I had to buy my first competition leo. Today, competition leos are the most expensive items in my daughter’s closet.

7. Gymnastics’ Moms are Yellers

I know what you are thinking, not all gymnastics moms yell at competitions. While this may be true, I bet you’ll find that more moms cheer than don’t. When we attend my daughter’s meets, she never has to worry about where I’m sitting or whether I’m watching. Instead, she just has to listen. Unlike some moms though, I don’t just cheer for my kid. I cheer for all of my daughter’s teammates…each and every one of them.

8. Watching Your Son or Daughter Compete with Hopeful Anxiety

I never realized how anxious I could be until I saw my daughter compete for the first time. As her skills have progressed and her level become more difficult, my anxiety has actually got worse. Where I use to watch with hopeful anxiety that she would be able to control her front hip circle on the uneven bars, I now hold my breath, with one eye closed, and a hand in front of my face while she is on the beam. I like to think that it will get better someday, but I don’t think it will. I’ve seen pictures of Olympians’ parents and I recognize those faces…hopeful that they will nail it and ready for a train wreck too.

9. My Car is My Gymnast’s Home Away from Home

Our home, gym, and school are in the same town…thank goodness, so we don’t have hours of travel each week, but my car is still my gymnast’s home away from home. Some days, she does homework, eats lunch, dinner, snacks, etc, and other days, it’s a mobile dressing room. Whatever has to be done to get ready for gymnastics…is usually done in my car.

Some of my family and friends don’t understand how or why gymnastics is such a big part of our lives. Gymnastics is expensive, time-consuming, and emotional, but we wouldn’t have it any other way.

So, aren’t all of those are very true? Did we miss some other things? We would love to hear from your experience. Please don’t hesitate to share!